The most important question you need to ask yourself is "What do I really want?"

An exercise to really get to know you!

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Love begins with YOU. Truly knowing yourself—your preferences, desires, needs, and passions—is the foundation for deep, aligned connections.

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So, let’s flip the script. You’ve seen those lists of questions to ask a first date or potential partner, but have you ever asked yourself those same questions? Do you really know you?

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Grab a journal or a piece of paper and dive into a self-discovery session. Get curious. Get honest. Get to know the most important person in your life—you.

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General & Fun:

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• What's your favorite way to spend a weekend?

• What's a skill you'd love to learn?

• What's the most adventurous thing you've ever done?

• What's a place you'd love to travel to?

• What's a movie/book/show that you always recommend?

• What's a fun fact you can't stop talking about?

• What's a song that always makes you want to dance?

• What's something you're really passionate about?

• What's a restaurant you would recommend?

• What's a place in Denver that you would recommend?

• What's a hobby you enjoy?

• What's a skill you'd like to learn?

• What's a fun fact you can't shut up about?

• What's a country you'd love to live in for a year? 

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Personal & Reflective

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• What's something people might find surprising about you?

• What's a childhood memory you cherish?

• What's a piece of advice you've received that has stuck with you?

• What's a lesson you've learned from a mistake?

• What's something you're proud of accomplishing?

• What's a book that changed your perspective?

• What's a movie that always makes you cry?

• What's a song that always makes you feel good?

• What's a place that makes you feel safe?

• What's the nicest thing someone has ever done for you?

• What's your biggest fear?

• What's your biggest pet peeve?

• What's a topic you could talk about for hours? 

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Specific to the Date/Location:​

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• What's something you've always wanted to try in Denver?

• What's a place in Denver you'd recommend?

• What's a restaurant you would recommend?    

 

Deeper questions:

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• What’s your best quality?

• What’s your worst quality?

• What does “home” mean to you?

• What’s your favorite childhood memory?

• Who are your role models?

• What is your relationship with your family like?

• What is your idea of happiness?

• Where do you see yourself five years from now?

• What goal are you working toward right now?

• What’s the biggest challenge you’re facing right now?

• What does retirement look like to you?

• What’s a skill or quality you would like to develop in yourself?

• Have you ever experienced a life-altering moment that changed your perspective?

• What do you consider your biggest accomplishment so far?

• What’s the most difficult thing you’ve ever been through?

• How do you cope when you’re upset or stressed out?

• What are you most grateful for?

• What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?

• What’s your worst habit?

• If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

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Congratulations, you're on the path to self discovery!