A Love Letter To Myself - Woman Becoming
- vibrantlovecoachin
- Aug 26
- 3 min read
Updated: Oct 29

I'm proud of the woman you are becoming.
I forgive you for staying too long in your past relationship.
I forgive you for letting someone walk all over you.
I forgive you for not being brave enough to stand on your own.
I forgive you for drinking too much.
For partying too much.
For giving your body too much.
For not knowing any better.
For being vindictive.
For holding grudges.
For judging others harshly.
For keeping silent.
I forgive you for not letting go.
For choosing the wrong people repeatedly.
For letting someone manipulate you.
For loving someone who didn’t love you back.
For letting past heartbreak shape your self-worth.
I free you. I free you from not knowing any better at the time. And I'm proud of you. Proud that you a have put in the work, that you chose the harder path, that you choose to rise anyway.
You are strong and brave, resilient and forgiving. You are confident and smart, you are capable and loving. You have found your voice and are no longer silent. I am proud of the woman you are and are yet to become.
You are learning the rhythm of your own heart. You are choosing yourself, even when it feels uncomfortable or uncertain. You are embracing your joy, your compassion, your curiosity about life.
I am proud of the woman you are and the woman you are yet to become. The woman who will continue to rise, even when life feels heavy. The woman who will love fully and fiercely. The woman who will dance, laugh and create on her own terms.
You are intuitive, mindful and present. You are playful and adventurous, peaceful and centered, kind and nurturing. You are becoming the best version of yourself and I am proud of you.
The woman you are becoming is not defined by past choices,
by other people’s opinions,
by societal timelines,
You are not the chapters you have closed, nor the wounds that once held you back.
You are not defined by other people’s opinions.
by timelines, by failures, by fear.
You are not defined by age,
by old roles or old stories.
You are not defined by doubt, by what you once were or by what you thought you should be.
You are defined by your values, the quiet convictions that guide your choices.
You are defined by your growth, by the lessons you’ve learned and the ways you continue to stretch.
By the life you are creating, by the presence, strength and grace you carry through the world.
And as you release the weight of what no longer serves you,
as you let go of judgment, fear and past mistakes,
you make space for the truth of who you are.
For the woman you are becoming is not built from what you have lost or endured,
but from the qualities you nurture, the choices you make and the love you carry forward.
You are beautiful. You are radiant. You are love.
You are a woman becoming.
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